A modern couple in a very solid & loving relationship. Add great communication skills and you have the perfect relationship?
Well, almost. Quite possibly the second most important thing in a couples relationship is sex. That is what this blog will focus on, advice, happenings, setbacks, questions & more.
About Us – Amy & Pete

- Amy – A modern girl with an amazing monogamous partner (Pete) who is devoted to me and likewise I am to him. He suggested (& I accepted) my having an open relationship status sexually, enabling me to have discreet NSA sex with better endowed men.
- Pete – A modern guy who doesn’t believe in the constraints of expectations forced upon us. Yet, he is totally monogamous with his beautiful partner (Amy). While being comfortable acknowledging his small penis & accepting that size does matter to her.
- Why would/should you consider sharing your partner?
- Cuckold – Hotwife – Vixen Stag – Swinger – Wittol….?
- Voyeurism – Cuckoldry – Troilism – Candaulism – Monogamish?
- Hopefully we can make some of these things clearer?
The Major reason we wanted to do something like this is because, try as you may, while searching for information, 90% of the time you will find yourself in a fantasy porn world. Honestly, we both enjoy porn & at times there will be elements of that, we will make it quite clear when we do, ensuring that there’s no misleading the reader.
We will also be publishing some short stories from when we met to the journey or the incidents that led us to the lifestyle and then of course, actual encounters.
These will be very open and honest. They will also be very hot, maybe too hot for some but let’s be honest, it’s sex and if it wasn’t HOT & EXCITING, then why would we have gone down this road?


Thank you for sharing
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Thank you Amy & Pete,
Stumbled upon this post and really enjoyed reading it.
My husband & I arrived at a very similar place but by a different journey.
I am not sure if this will mean much to both of you but it may do with other couples.
The validation Sean, my husband feels after reading your post and he passes on his gratitude.
I am going to read your other posts and do the survey.
Love
Lisa (& Sean)
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You’re welcome.
I am pleased and hope the journey was exciting, most important being where you are now.
Having the love of a great husband and being sexually desired by other men. With the freedom to have physical pleasures with those men. A great place!
It does mean a lot and when I’m not be humorous my intention is always about being open and that it might help others. At the least give them an idea of what they may encounter. Then it saddens me that Sean or other husband’s would feel the validation.
I have encountered some big mouthed nasty husbands online, they would NEVER let there wives… how could any real man… they would kill her before letting another…. Ask his wife how their sex-life is – Non-Existent!
A real (sic) man neglects his wife, treats her as livestock and threatens to kill her if….
I think that husbands/partners that share for the right reasons are great men and the above is a husband but in no way a man real or otherwise.
Our love to you both
A&P
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We have followed you elsewhere for sometime and think you are both amazing.
Pete for being forward thinking, unselfish and his own man unconcerned by opinions of others.
Amy for those same qualities her husband has as well as her openness and courage,
Also for being so dam sexy! x we look forward to more x
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Hi Amy,
Enjoyed reading this and other, also helpful but still a bit lost.
We’re a younger married couple and I was a virgin when we met.
After years we looked for ways to keep sex exciting and dirty talking in the bedroom was one thing.
One day my husband asked me if I ever wondered about what sex with another man would be like as he is my only.
I answered honestly, yes and sometime later he began introducing it to our talk and it grew.
We both agreed that while we both found it very erotic it would most likely never happen.
Then it did, the whole situation was right and we agreed to go for it and it was wonderful.
We both shared a little guilt but talking about it agreed it had no effect on our marriage.
I have wanted to do it again and recently noticed that my husband would talk about it in a round about way.
I also recently discovered he watches porn online and it is mostly wife sharing, f### my wife and so on.
I suppose we will work it out but meanwhile it is great reading and knowing about people like you and your husband.
Thanks
Casey
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We love you, Amy thanks for your friendship and amazing discussions we have had. Amazed you’re following before we have our first post up!
Mary & Rick xxx
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Love you too ❤
Nice pic reminds me of a nursery rhyme – Mary Mary quite contrary trim that pussy its so damn hairy xxx
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The bush is back girlfriend 🙂 And it seems to be a little dick deterrent!
Can you believe that he whines about it!!
That I even let him look there is a blessing and if he does something special, I might let him taste the ginger minge!
He won’t be trying for intercourse again, I shut him down by being honest explaining that he barely has the inches to get past the hair with little to nothing left for penetration!!! hahaha
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