The beginning, genesis, so where did it begin? Was there an actual moment?
Was it the first time she used the word small or little, in reference to your penis?
OR was it when you discovered the porn sites she visits and the monster sized cocks!
OR overhearing the conversation when she was with her friends, their excited chatter about well endowed males!
OR was it as straight forward as the love of your life being honest and upfront stating that, I WANT/NEED a large penis to be fulFILLED!
All the above happened for me, I can’t remember the order or when or even how far apart, but they did. What I can remember is that it aroused me and how confused I felt because of that occurring.
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1. Length of Erect Penis? – 47% = 4 – 5″ or 10 – 12.7 cm. 24% = 5 – 6″ or 12.7 – 15.2 cm.
2. Girth (circumference) of Erect Penis? – 41% = 3 – 4″ or 7.6 – 10 cm. 32% = 4 – 5″ or 10 – 12.7 cm.
3. Do YOU believe penis size is important? – 76% = YES. 18% = Unsure.
4. Does Wife/Girlfriend believe penis size is important? – 68% = YES. 16% = Unsure.
5. Have you shared her/Have you been shared? – 53% = YES. 27% = No – have discussed it and positive to it occurring.
6. Is penis size an important component of the other man? – 71% = YES. 21% = Yes (Him) Unsure (Her)
7. Size being important, what length should the erect penis be? – 56% = More than 8″ or 20.3 cm. 38% = 7 – 8″ or 17.8 – 20.3 cm.
8. Size being important, what Girth (circumference) should the erect penis be? – 50% = More than 7″ or 17.8 cm. 36% = 6 – 7″ or 15.2 – 17.8 cm.
9. If you are sharing/thinking about with better endowed men, is the wife/girlfriend? – 79% = Extremely Responsive. 11% = Responsive but needing Husband/BF encouragement.
10. For those who Do, Have or Going to – How often do you envisage this occurring? – 73% = As often as the Wife/Girlfriend wants to. 12% = Monthly, Fortnightly – A Set frequency.
Various people – Female friends, online chats and so on have asked for advice and I would say to search online.
There is great advice online, however I found most of it heavy or confronting which would make most stop there.
I want to share those things that worked for me/us or that I know did for others I know well. NOTE – Make sure your relationship is in a good place and that your communication with each other is great, if not, I strongly advise not to proceed.
# 1a – Buy him Swimwear Briefs.
Many wives and girlfriends will be thinking no way, he won’t and other excuses. I hope you didn’t think there was a magic wand, you are going to have to do a little work. This will be just that little bit harder for you wives and girlfriends here right now. Why? Because your man at the very best will have an average sized penis but the vast majority of you will have one that is modest/small/tiny.
Overcoming his objections – You bought them for him as a gift which makes this easier so first up, do state that. Tell him that you find the swimwear hot, flatter him a little but do not go overboard. You tell him how proud you are that he is your man and NOW you go in for the kill. Your conversation now is positive, this is not asking, talking if he will, this is you conversing he is wearing them – Which shows how he is a confident man and you find that hot! The male ego, learn how to use it to your advantage!
Did I Mention, with the swimwear, the more revealing the better 😃 Below is a picture, very similar to the ones I got my husband Pete. (Okay, the second pair I bought him)
Pete is handsome and with his dedication to the gym, possesses a hot physique. Women are attracted to him and range from a little flirting up to some throwing themselves at him for sex. A side benefit of this exercise for me was a gold bonus! The reactions from women when they notice his little willie. Quickly looking away embarrassed, some even blushing and if there are two or more, the looks they give each other. “did you see how small his penis is, what a shame.” However the big prize, the gold medal is when the two or more snicker or openly laugh!
# 1b – The Right Location.
A Beach? Yes, but the right one.*You do not want the family beach with the screaming children wearing floats, grand parents on beach chairs and resentful parents. *NO! You do not want to go to that secret nudist beach you heard about. The one hour hike along a tiny trail finds a tiny beach behind a rocky cliff and the surrounds are wild. The few people there are usually older, quite hairy and all about freedoms and peace. Something in between, middle of the road? Ah no. *You want the happening cool spot which will have an above average number of good looking males and females with a few posers thrown in. If you are a bit older, be cool, do NOT turn up with a floppy hat and a big umbrella, just try to blend in.
# 00 – Optional Extra.
This is for the confident wife/girlfriend and/or partner who enjoys showing her off. Highly recommended as it shows a strong female and upon spotting his tiny package will have hung studs circling akin to sharks.
We have had two similar surveys running for quite a longtime and recently looked at the results. I do not think anyone will ever be able to give a definitive answer to the “Does Penis Size Matter?” These surveys were not intended to do so. We have our own personal opinion on the size question which we will share at the end.
We assume that the people who took the survey are in or thinking about being in – Hotwife – Wife Sharing – Cuckold – Open Relationship – Voyeur etc Lifestyles. OR quite simply, fantasizing about it.
The two surveys are A & B
Length of Your/His Erect Penis?
A – 1. 47% = 4-5″ 2. 24% = 6″ or More.
B – 1. 40% = 4-5″ 2. 33% = 5-6″
Girth (circumference) of Your/His Erect Penis?
A – 1. 54% = 3-4″ 2. 25% = 4-5″
B – 1. 44% = 3-4″ 2. 33% = 4-5″
Do YOU believe penis size is important?
A – 1. 85% = Yes 2. 12% = Unsure
B – 1. 67% = Yes 2. 24% = Unsure
Does YOUR wife or girlfriend believe penis size is important?
A – 1. 86% = Yes 2. 7% = Unsure
B – No Results as previous Question for Either or Both
Have you shared her/Have you been shared?
A – 1. 56% = Yes 2. 37% = No (Discussed & Positive)
B – 1. 47% = Yes 2. 21% = No (Discussed & Negative)
Is Penis size an important component of the other man?
Of the two Surveys which have almost identical questions, B was placed in more conservative places online as well as directed toward Non Lifestyle people.
HOWEVER, the results do show the following – Firstly thank you to all who have responded, enlightening for us was the number of you who have not experienced sharing her but were open minded enough to take the survey.
Summary of the Results
The majority of Husbands/Boyfriends have a small penis.
Overwhelming desire for either or both upgrading to well hung endowed. Slightly lesser with the conservative respondents but 92% still wanted 7″+ in length & 77% wanted 6″+ in girth which speaks volumes regarding the “Does Penis Size Matter?” debate.
The only thing that surprised us was Penis Girth, we have only encountered one man with a 7″ girth.
We enjoy our lifestyle, Husband has a small penis and wife climaxes easily with a large penis. Having an open minded and unselfish husband makes for a wonderful relationship!
“Does Penis Size Matter?” For us, the answer is: YES it does on a purely sexual level. Less so on a relationship level.
I wholeheartedly agree.
Family sized deep dished with very thick filled crust.
Lisa, could you PLEASE have Mr Picture B deliver it?
My god, what a beautiful big 🍆
Eddie Murphy once did a piece along the lines of sex with that one person was akin to the same meal over and over.
Then someone else came along and it was like a completely new, different & exciting meal.
In many ways that is quite accurate. We met, fell madly in love & five years later we got married. Three years later – DISASTER!
For 5 or 6 years our sex-life had been very active, then it began to slow until eventually…
Feeling amorous and not wanting to masturbate, I wanted to feel my husband/mans touch even though I have never had an orgasm with intercourse I do still enjoy the feeling of his dick. How long had it been? Two, no three, calculating and it was three weeks and five days. Thinking some more I was surprised that it was once a month, two at best. Tonight I…
My loving man – Erect! *NOTE the start of the tape, diagonal placement… 13cm? he is 11.5 on a good day. And this is why he’s “Pete the Cheat”
A well known site, one has an account and you put your measurements in, length & girth – Erect & flaccid. Above we actually have Pete & a friend Alex.
Oh, but if we do, then we should double talk, we are conditioned to say that size does not matter.
The so called experts use fabricated statistics, then take part scientific and adapt it and finally call it factual.
A quite accurate depiction of my husbands strong erection and Alex when flaccid.
There it is, they can keep trying to do the soft or hard sells on penis size not mattering. They can use a potpourri of magical facts or studies without showing anything in the way of proof. They will use a lot of words that dance around but never direct. They will talk about making love? Yes, I LOVE the man on the left, a love that is all encompassing, immeasurable, completely. That is love and then there is sex. I will use a profanity now, fuck. I love to fuck! Hot, sweaty, passionate and the power of that fucking grows exponentially with every inch added. The two men above met when they started school, grew up a few blocks from each other and were good friends through school and beyond till a move interstate separated them. I had a sexual open relationship status compliments of my husband but a year had passed and I had not used it. His re-connection with Alex put things in play and the rest as they say, is history.
I began with a picture of my husband, I will finish with one of my special friend.
I like him but LOVE his dick and this man knows how to use it! Very fit and amazing stamina equals unbelievable sex!!!
“I go to bed with men, not boys.” What do women want these days? “Sometimes all we need is a big dick and no arguments. What could make us happier?” Isn’t that a bit simplistic? “Maybe, but I’ve learned not to expect that much in relationships. So being well-hung is at least compensation for a general lack of sensitivity in the emotional area.”
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Our Reality
We are an adult couple, very much in love and we do all the things that couples do.
As adults you have sex, that's reality.
Our reality?
OK, he is a few years older and a male. They do say males peak in their late teens and females from late 20's to mid 30's or so.
Our libido's - He is satisfied or up for it, once a week. Yes, there has been a twice weekly now and then. Me, Myself? Daily and even then.... We did say that honesty would be the order of these articles so... Many a day at work I have nipped into the ladies room that is rarely used and at times when all staff are at their posts. Along with a quiet bullet vibrator and my imagination.
Inadequacy!
Note the picture, Yes that is Pete's penis, that which is used to pleasure me. A picture is better than words sometimes. Ah but he's a grower not a shower some of you might be thinking.
So, does it grow?
Well, yes and... um no.
Yes,the length to a little over 4 inches.
No, the girth is 3.7 inches (cloth measuring tape) rock hard. That's 1.2 inches diameter.
I don't think my loving man is ever going to be accused of stretching a vagina.
Solution?
A HUGE (pardon the pun) turning point. Realism begins to accelerate the future.
It began as light banter… Talk such as my having an open relationship or discreet no-strings sex with other men. It wasn’t long before I noticed Pete’s complete acquiescence to my having sex with another. It wasn’t long after that when I began throwing out little challenges to test that acquiescence. What if he makes love better than you? What if he gives me orgasms/makes me cum? He would give me a coy smile, a nod. All the while my arousal grew…
Amy & Petelilpeen 